My spouse won’t communicate with me at all - what are my options?

[Peter B]

I'm not sure what to do, my spouse won’t communicate with me at all now

[James]

Hi Peter,

Sorry to hear that, I found a good page describing some options

• https://www.watson-thomas.co.uk/help-and-advice/27-help-and-advice-divorce-relationship-breakdown/284-my-spouse-won-t-communicate-with-me-what-can-i-do

In summary the steps are

• your solicitor asks your spouse / their solicitor to respond to within a certain time period
• if still no response your solicitor may
  • send a firmer letter to your spouse
  • invite your spouse to mediation
  • obtain the assistance from the Court to set a timetable

[Peter B]

Thanks @James, we tried mediation but she aborted that process and since then won't speak to me about anything directly, all communication is now via our solicitors it's extremely frustrating (& expensive!) 

[abdulloh21]

Going through a silent treatment from your spouse is like navigating a maze in the dark. It's isolating and frustrating as heck. I've been there, and it's a tough road.
But if this silence drags on and you're feeling lost, it might be time to explore some options. Don't be afraid to reach out, even if it feels like you're talking to a brick wall. Try different ways to connect, whether it's through writing letters, sending texts, or even suggesting counseling to break through the barriers.
And hey, I stumbled upon this site at https://divorcejury.com/faq that might offer some insights and support as you navigate through this tough time.

Edited February 12, 2024 by abdulloh21

[Peter B]

Thanks abdulloh21, this is really good advice, I think I will start putting things in writing via email, letter or text as she just denies I have said something or worse changes what I said.   I didn't want to have to do this but I feel I have to protect myself now.