Feeling lost, seeking advice please

[SarahP]

Hi everyone,

I've only just found this forum, this is my first post, and honestly, I'm feeling pretty desperate. I'm going through a really difficult divorce, and things seem to be getting messier by the day. We've been married for 10 years, and while things haven't been perfect, I never thought it would come to this.

My spouse and I just can't seem to agree on anything. Dividing assets feels impossible, and the thought of figuring out custody for our kids (we have two, ages 7 and 5) is tearing me apart. They're already confused and scared, and I feel like I'm letting them down.

My spouse has gotten a lawyer who seems to be out for blood. They're dragging things out, making everything a fight, and the legal fees are starting to pile up. Honestly, I can barely afford this anymore.

I guess I'm just looking for some advice. Has anyone else been through a similar situation? How did you manage to stay afloat (financially and emotionally)? Is there anything I can do to make this process smoother, especially for the kids?

Also is anyone else's ex trying to play mind games on them and going out of their way to be difficult?  I'm not sure whether I'm being paranoid or not.

Any words of wisdom or resources would be greatly appreciated. I feel so lost right now, and any support would mean the world to me.

Thanks in adance,

S

Edited May 13, 2024 by SarahP